The colour of my skin?

My ancestors were enslaved... because of what they looked like, the colour of their skin ?

My ancestors died in wars... because of what they looked like, the colour of their skin ?

I was bullied at school... because of what i looked like, the colour of my skin ?

I was refused entry to night-clubs...because of what i looked like, the colour of my skin ?

Girls refused to date me...because of what i looked like, the colour of my skin ?

I was stopped by the police...because of what i looked like, the colour of my skin ?

I didn't get jobs...because of what i looked like , the colour of my skin ?

I didn't get promotions...because of what i looked like, the colour of my skin ?

I lost jobs...because of what i looked like, the colour of my skin ?

I do feel not valued...because of what i look like, the colour of my skin ?

I do not feel respected...because of what i look like, the colour of my skin ?

My life did not work out right... because of what I look like, the colour of my skin ?

I failed at pretty much everything...because of what i look like, the colour of my skin ?

or is that just the way life is and not everybody wins?